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Speed Dating In Belfast: Don’t Talk About Work

Speed dating in Belfast is ideal for those who simply don’t have the time to look for dates in the traditional way. Speed dating allows you to speak to numerous different people at one event, and to find out whether you are compatible before seeing if you are a perfect match.

It can feel a little daunting when you arrive for your speed dating event and see so many strangers in the room. Don’t let this worry you; others will be just as nervous as you are. And if you let yourself relax a little, you can really enjoy the experience whether you meet someone who matches you perfectly, or not. There are no strict rules about what you should or should not talk about when on your speed dating UK wide evening, but that does not mean that all subjects should be open for discussion. Work is one of them. Although it may be important to you, and although you may find it fascinating, that does not mean that your date will want to hear all about it. You only have a limited time to chat – do you really want to fill that with the stuff you do every day? Or would you rather talk about your dreams for the future, your travel plans, your hobbies? Those are much more likely to find you a match. Most of the people in the room will have a job, and unless yours is particularly different or interesting, it’s best left to one side for this important first meeting.

Speed dating in Belfast does not need to be awkward when you book yourself onto an event run by Ditch or Date Ltd. Look at our website at https://www.ditchordate.com for advice and the dates of our upcoming events. If you have any questions, please contact us on either 0191 486 2328 or helen@ditchordate.com for details.