Advice Section
Advice Section
Speed dating in England attracts a variety of different people for numerous reasons. The one thing you all have in common is that you are looking for love, or at least a meaningful friendship. Whether you have tried other forms of dating to no avail, have just come out of a relationship and don’t know where to start, or simply find it hard to find time to date, speed dating could be the answer you have been searching for. It is a relatively relaxed form of dating, more than its name would suggest, but there are still a few tips to take on board to make the whole experience more likely to lead to a positive outcome.
When you initially sign up for speed dating events UK, you may spend the time leading up to the event searching through the internet and magazines for the best advice. However, not all the advice is any good, so always apply a healthy dose of common sense. Any advice that suggests pretending to be someone you’re not, or to like something you don’t, should be ignored immediately. Just imagine you said you liked sports and you don’t you are matched and for your first date your match presents tickets to your ‘favourite sport’. Not only will you be in for a tedious date, but how is it going to look when you need to tell them the truth? There is never any point starting any kind of relationship pretending to be something you’re not. The same approach needs to be taken to pets, hobbies and jokes. If you have a dry sense of humour and they spend the entire four minutes cracking one liners because you said you enjoyed a good laugh, there is going to be a miss-match there. During speed dating in York events you need to be clear about your meaning, so give examples. If you say you like a good laugh offer an example of something you find funny; there is a significant difference between Jack Ass and Jo Brand, just to provide two comic examples. And it doesn’t stop with comedy either, peoples idea of theatre differs, as does their take on what constitutes a meal out. Honesty really is the best policy when attending speed dating in England events.
So, you have been through all the advice, picked the good from the bad and are ready to attend your first event. The only problem is, when you get there your first ‘date’ of the evening hasn’t quite read the same advice, or has let the nerves get to them. As a result, they are now sat opposite you looking very uncomfortable and not saying anything; what do you do? If this happens while you are speed dating in Brighton, you need to think of a way of drawing them out of themselves, and quickly. The easiest way to do this is with a sincere compliment followed by an open-ended question. It could be as simple as ‘that’s a lovely perfume / aftershave’ how do you manage to get the strength balance right? It may seem a silly question, but even if the answer is ‘I don’t know – I always wear it’ you can build from this, and at least the conversation has started. When you are speed dating in Sheffield, and your date has taken bad advice, you may have a tougher time getting to know them, but again if you relax, they may see there is no need for the pretence. By following the simple rule of being truthful and being who you are you are more likely to enjoy your Ditch or Date Ltd dating experience.
If you are looking for a new partner, a potential long term relationship or a new meaningful friendship then our team at Ditch or Date Ltd are here to help. Speed dating in England is easy when you attend a professional event with a host that has over six years’ experience. You’ll enter a private and relaxed atmosphere where you can get to know lots of new people. Why not look at the current speed dating events at https://www.ditchordate.com. If you have any questions about attending our events then email helen@ditchordate.com and we will do what we can to prepare you for an event where you may just find the perfect match for you.
